haha i love this! definitely works with traditional marriages too just by changing it from boyfriend to my personal favourite title, ‘potential future husband’. & most definitely add a ’sacrifice’ section; what is sacrifice to you, what are you willing to sacrifice, what do you think you are capable of sacrificing, what are you expecting me to sacrifice…etc.
being told by a pfh who used the word sacrifice more than 7 times, that he would probably only be sacrificing the amount of boys time he will spend with his friends and traveling with his pfw instead of them made me chuckle and weep inside over this generation and cultural mentality of our ‘men’.
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this has been my approach to life; friends, events, things, for the last one year and a half, and i couldn’t have felt any happier or better internally. it has its up and downs, the complications and hiccups, but eventually there’s always that sense of peace within you, peace i couldn’t experience when i went back to doing things i thought i needed, wanted, to make me happy. thought if i did them differently, they will bring me the happyness i longed for. i learnt that if something doesn’t make me happy now, it most probably never will. no matter how much i tried to look at it differently, come around it differently, it just didn’t work. it will never work.
nothing beats feeling happy. doing things that make you happy. surrounding yourself by people who make you happy. getting involved in things that make you happy. & being with someone who makes you happy.
happy. happy. happy.
(via etiquetteforalady)
People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all..] [..People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain
i fell in love in with this movie.
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